
DD had her first swim meet yesterday and she swam very, very well for, well, a 6-year-old. She REALLY enjoyed getting a blue ribbon (for her heat) in the 25 M freestyle and 25 M backstroke. Honestly, she swam MUCH better than I have seen her do in practice. I am proud of how she swam.
I am also proud of how DS#1 swam. He isn't there to win ribbons or awards, but to have fun and participate with some of his neighborhood friends. Unfortunately for him, he gets to swim in the 13-14 age group for events (he is 13) and the 18 and under age group for relays (um, yeah, ouch!). In any case, they both had fun swimming while DS#2 had a blast running around the park with his friends.

My lovely wife spends so much time "gritting her teeth and bearing it" while helping DD practice that she certainly deserves an award too. When we aren't dealing with the constant aversion to practice, we get a bit of a kick out of the fact that DD is happy to perform, but not quite so happy to practice. When playing with neighborhood friends, she will gladly sit down at someone elses piano and play, yet tortures us when we ask her to practice.
DS#2 has absolutely no desire to play in a recital (or so he says) but gladly practices guitar on his own without any interference or encouragement from us. I wonder what he really thinks sometimes though, because he sat and listened to the entire recital. *I* had to step out several times with DS#3 because DS#2 was so insistent about hearing the entire recital. The highlight was the end when DD's teacher played. Alas, I don't have that one on tape, but let me just say it was very, very impressive.
I thought I would close on an awkward note. I mentioned in a post below that DS#1 made the soccer team after tryouts and that some of his teammates clearly couldn't have due to the number of new players. Well, a parent of another player emailed me this afternoon asking if I knew the results of the tryouts (I received it this evening). Now, this is a parent that I like and respect but I am not allowed to say whether or not DS#1 made it yet, the coach wants to talk to all of the people that were at tryouts on his own. Well, the coach was due to be out of town all weekend for a championship tournament. In the end, I just emailed asking if he had heard a response and told him that I thought the coach was due to be out of town all weekend. I didn't say anything about whether or not I heard about results for DS#1. My lovely wife said that he'd read between the lines and know, but at least I answered. I owe this particular parent that much.
I suppose I could have lied and said I didn't know anything, but I just can't do that, even in an email. This boy's dad knows that I'll be home on a Sunday night getting ready for the week and that I check email in the evenings. I had to answer, but I feel like I "danced the question" a bit and feel bad about it.